[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BlogPosting","@id":"https:\/\/www.amorusolaw.com\/blog\/health-care-decisions-when-family-is-no-longer-there-white-plains-ny\/#BlogPosting","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.amorusolaw.com\/blog\/health-care-decisions-when-family-is-no-longer-there-white-plains-ny\/","headline":"Health Care Decisions When Family Is No Longer There","name":"Health Care Decisions When Family Is No Longer There","description":"\u201cThe presumption is that everyone has someone available, someone most likely younger or in better health, and better able to carry out one\u2019s wishes or make decisions with your guidance…\u201d But not everyone does. When it comes time to make life-and-death health decisions on your behalf, what do you do if you have no \u201cfamily\u201d […]","datePublished":"2013-10-01","dateModified":"2023-08-12","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.amorusolaw.com\/blog\/author\/amorusolaw\/#Person","name":"Amoruso & Amoruso LLP","url":"https:\/\/www.amorusolaw.com\/blog\/author\/amorusolaw\/","identifier":5,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/12de032c04195e9c39a06a6d6eea182f7b4fa655c20e245f8094a244b5cdd0cb?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/12de032c04195e9c39a06a6d6eea182f7b4fa655c20e245f8094a244b5cdd0cb?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"Amoruso & Amoruso LLP","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.amorusolaw.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/amoruso-logo.svg","url":"https:\/\/www.amorusolaw.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/amoruso-logo.svg","width":0,"height":0}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.amorusolaw.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/6a01901dd0a082970b019affa4ec76.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.amorusolaw.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/6a01901dd0a082970b019affa4ec76.jpg","height":853,"width":1280},"url":"https:\/\/www.amorusolaw.com\/blog\/health-care-decisions-when-family-is-no-longer-there-white-plains-ny\/","about":["Elder Care","Elder Law"],"wordCount":372,"keywords":["Advance Directives","Elder Care","Elder Law","End-of-Life"],"articleBody":"\u201cThe presumption is that everyone has someone available, someone most likely younger or in better health, and better able to carry out one\u2019s wishes or make decisions with your guidance…\u201dBut not everyone does.When it comes time to make life-and-death health decisions on your behalf, what do you do if you have no \u201cfamily\u201d to name as your healthcare proxy or as the agent on your power of attorney?The New Old Age blog of The New York Times recently took up the question of \u201cWhen There\u2019s No Family.\u201dThis is an especially difficult problem for many seniors.\u00a0They oftentimes need someone to wield a power of attorney and even a medicaldirective to go to bat in their interests with medical staff, not to mention settling aspects of the estate. While there are close friends for many seniors even in lieu of family, it is still not uncommon to be without even these.According to the American Bar Association\u2019s Commission on Law and Aging, \u201cperhaps 4 percent of older adults are \u2018the unbefriended elderly,\u2019 a chilling phrase referring to those who cannot make decisions for themselves, have no advance directive or surrogate decision maker, and have no family or friends able to assist.\u201dUnfortunately, there are few easy solutions. Even engaging a professional to serve in such capacities can be a difficult road, too. The professional will be bound to certain standards and difficult legal requirements. In addition, not everyone can serve in this capacity, especially the medical staff an elderly person may have come to befriend and rely upon.Fortunately, solutions are emerging — like the notion of a \u201ccare community\u201d of elderly individuals looking after one another, financially, medically and often legally.Whether such a solution is open to you, it is still absolutely vital to have robust advanced directives concerning end-of-life decisions. Make sure you have appointed someone you know and trust to speak for you and do for you when you cannot. The importance of having your end-of-life wishes committed to writing cannot be overemphasized.Reference: The New York Times \u2013 The New Old Age (September 23, 2013) \u201cWhen There\u2019s No Family\u201dFor more information on elder law and estate planning, please visit my estate planning website."},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Blog","item":"https:\/\/www.amorusolaw.com\/blog\/#breadcrumbitem"},{"@type":"ListItem","position":2,"name":"Health Care Decisions When Family Is No Longer There","item":"https:\/\/www.amorusolaw.com\/blog\/health-care-decisions-when-family-is-no-longer-there-white-plains-ny\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]