[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BlogPosting","@id":"https:\/\/www.amorusolaw.com\/blog\/preparing-to-care-for-your-parents-can-be-difficult-white-plains-ny-greenwich-ct\/#BlogPosting","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.amorusolaw.com\/blog\/preparing-to-care-for-your-parents-can-be-difficult-white-plains-ny-greenwich-ct\/","headline":"Preparing to Care for Your Parents Can Be Difficult","name":"Preparing to Care for Your Parents Can Be Difficult","description":"You may have to take care of your parents in later life and it\u2019s best to prepare one step at a time. Life starts out with your parents taking care of you but often that scenario changes and you end up caring for your parents. Sometimes preparing for that situation is easy but not always, […]","datePublished":"2018-12-18","dateModified":"2023-07-30","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.amorusolaw.com\/blog\/author\/amorusolaw\/#Person","name":"Amoruso & Amoruso LLP","url":"https:\/\/www.amorusolaw.com\/blog\/author\/amorusolaw\/","identifier":5,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/12de032c04195e9c39a06a6d6eea182f7b4fa655c20e245f8094a244b5cdd0cb?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/12de032c04195e9c39a06a6d6eea182f7b4fa655c20e245f8094a244b5cdd0cb?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"Amoruso & Amoruso LLP","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.amorusolaw.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/amoruso-logo.svg","url":"https:\/\/www.amorusolaw.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/07\/amoruso-logo.svg","width":0,"height":0}},"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/www.amorusolaw.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/6a01901dd0a082970b022ad3a7ebca.jpg","url":"https:\/\/www.amorusolaw.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/04\/6a01901dd0a082970b022ad3a7ebca.jpg","height":853,"width":1280},"url":"https:\/\/www.amorusolaw.com\/blog\/preparing-to-care-for-your-parents-can-be-difficult-white-plains-ny-greenwich-ct\/","about":["Advance Directives","Caregiver","Guardians","Health Care Agent","Health Care Proxy","Power of Attorney \/ POA","Will"],"wordCount":491,"keywords":["Advance Directive","Caregiver","Guardian","Health Care Agent","Health Care Proxy","Power of Attorney","Will"],"articleBody":"You may have to take care of your parents in later life and it\u2019s best to prepare one step at a time.Life starts out with your parents taking care of you but often that scenario changes and you end up caring for your parents. Sometimes preparing for that situation is easy but not always, according to Connecticut Magazine in “Senior Caregiving 101“.The very idea of being in charge of the people who taught you how to tie your shoes and drive a car can be emotional and many people put off having the talk about caregiving, until an emergency presents itself. That\u2019s not a good plan. Those of us in our 40s, 50s, and 60s will, at some point, need to be involved in taking care of a parent, including their finances, living arrangements, legal issues and medical care.Where to start? Take it one step at a time.Begin with a conversation about these issues, long before anyone is sick. Getting started in a crisis leads to increased anxiety and sometimes outright panic.If you are worried that your parents or siblings will think you are after their money, think again. How you approach these topics will make the difference. Once a caregiving plan, legal and financial matters are addressed, you\u2019ll all feel more comfortable. Start with a simple thought: \u201cI\/We want to make sure that your wishes are respected.\u201dIs there a lot of paperwork? Yes and no. By preparing in advance, you avoid going through a scavenger hunt for insurance policies, bills and wills. You\u2019ll know where the documents are and will be free to focus on the important things, such as taking care of and spending time with your aging parents.You\u2019ll need to have a Power of Attorney prepared. A Durable Power of Attorney means that the Power of Attorney will remain in effect, so the appointed agent may continue acting even if the principal becomes mentally incapacitated. Power of Attorney can be limited or broad. However, it\u2019s a good idea to build in periodic reports as a system of checks and balances.You\u2019ll also need an advance directive in the form of a health care proxy. This is a document that protects an individual\u2019s right to refuse medical treatment or to request treatment, if they are not able to make decisions on their own. Depending on the person\u2019s needs, they may need a health care agent, designation of a guardian and an anatomical gift declaration. This is needed if they want to make an \u201canatomical gift,\u201d which is also known as an organ donation.It is a good idea to meet with an estate planning attorney to deal with specific circumstances, including the creation of a will and the naming of an executor.Reference: Connecticut Magazine (Nov. 23, 2018) “Senior Caregiving 101”For more information on elder law and estate planning, please visit my estate planning website."},{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"BreadcrumbList","itemListElement":[{"@type":"ListItem","position":1,"name":"Blog","item":"https:\/\/www.amorusolaw.com\/blog\/#breadcrumbitem"},{"@type":"ListItem","position":2,"name":"Preparing to Care for Your Parents Can Be Difficult","item":"https:\/\/www.amorusolaw.com\/blog\/preparing-to-care-for-your-parents-can-be-difficult-white-plains-ny-greenwich-ct\/#breadcrumbitem"}]}]